Hi, I’m Emma, a Sex, Love & Relationship Coach.

My work is necessarily ground-breaking and immersive. I bring a results-led and trauma-aware approach to intimacy, sex, and relationship coaching. The coaching is goal-orientated, builds on forward momentum, and is designed to deliver clear, tangible shifts right from the start.

I focus on the science of the nervous system, addressing the deep-rooted core beliefs and survival strategies formed in childhood or adulthood. These subconscious patterns dictate how we love, or struggle to love, ourselves, the dynamics we recreate in relationships based on our past, and our capacity to enjoy sexual pleasure and feel confident in the bedroom.

In our work together, I provide foundational support for your nervous system, guiding you out of overthinking and into your body so you can shift out of stress responses and feel truly calm, grounded, and at ease. To create long-lasting change, the coaching includes powerful bespoke audio practices to listen to in between sessions that help you to uncover the core blocks and rewire subconscious patterns directly at their root.

Together, we focus on rebuilding your sexual confidence, helping you release guilt, performance anxiety, and outdated conditioning so you can stop overthinking, feel genuinely comfortable in your own body, and enjoy intimacy on your own terms. Coaching is practical and forward-focused, offering actionable tools and strategies that increase your self-esteem, restore emotional calm, and deepen connection.

My work is offered as intensive, structured programmes, typically spanning 4 months, designed specifically for those who are emotionally ready, committed to integrating practices between sessions, and eager for a deep, transformational shift. Every programme is uniquely tailored to your individual desires and goals around sex, intimacy, and relationships.

I began my own journey in the field of sexuality and relationships over a decade ago after many years working in the mental health and addiction sectors, and my training has led me to study with some of the world’s most inspiring and respected teachers in the areas of love, sex, and relationships. Prior to becoming a coach, I was the Founding CEO of an award-winning charity for 10 years that supported people impacted by a loved one’s substance misuse.

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About Zoë Clews

Zoe Clews is the founder of Zoe Clews & Associates and one the UK’s most sought after hypnotherapists. For over 23 years, she has provided highly effective, bespoke hypnotherapy to high profile clients, including senior professionals, corporate clients and public figures. Recognised by the Evening Standard as one of London’s best hypnotherapists and frequently appearing in the media, Zoe specialises in anxiety, trauma, self esteem and confidence, while leading a team of ten associates who treat a wide range of conditions including addiction, weight management, eating disorders, relationships, fertility, phobias, OCD and sleep issues. Inspired by her own personal journey, Zoe works with individuals and blue chip corporates to provide tailored hypnotherapy and wellbeing support, through regular or occasional sessions, or as part of employee wellbeing initiatives.